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Post by Jay on Feb 16, 2006 17:18:06 GMT -5
always a possibility...
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Post by paintbabylover0518 on Feb 16, 2006 17:51:15 GMT -5
i got preg at 14... my forst time when i was drunk. He used a condom, but i wasnt on BC but even then i stillg ot preg. But i had a miscarrage about a month after i found out.. THANK GOD! then after jeff broke up with me, he told me to tell him when i get my period.. becasue.. well the last time we had sex the condom broke. But i just had it so nothign to worry about. I was SOO scared. I didnt want to be preg. AGAIN! AHHHHHHAHHHHH
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Prodigy
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Post by Prodigy on Feb 17, 2006 14:17:49 GMT -5
Yep, they really don't teach abstinence as a form of birth control in sex education. They should push it. Going on about using condoms and birth control is like saying "We don't trust you to respect yourselves enough not to have sex, so we're just gonna tell you how to do it without dying, .. sometimes."
I am 20, and still a virgin and VERY proud of it. Anytime I could have lost it before now (and yes, there were times), it would have been sleazy, obviously not with the person I am going to spend the rest of my life with because I am YOUNG - I can't reasonably convince myself I'm going to find someone meaningful now, and I'm not into "casual", personally. Besides the fact, a) my Christian upbringing prompts me to save it for marriage (and really, wouldn't that be an amazing wedding gift? To give your husband something that NO ONE ELSE HAS EVER HAD and never will have? Why would you give it to some random person when you're young and things don't last?), b) I'm not ready to have a baby or an STD, and since abstinence is the only surefire way, I am therefore not ready to have sex, and c) I have far too much respect for myself.
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Post by rodeogal on Feb 17, 2006 14:24:48 GMT -5
I made the mistake in having sex with my hubbys best friend. I will admit it I was a sex manic. I only had 4 partners but oh well. I told my hubby that I lost mine around 14 yrs old. He didn't ask who cause I think if he ever found out he would kill him. The other thing he doesn't know is that I had sex with his best friends brother. Only like 1 time, we were both drunk.. But know My hubby is the only one I would ever have sex with, and my 5 yr old daughter is the proof of that. We have been married for 9 yrs.
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Post by Erin on Feb 17, 2006 20:22:42 GMT -5
Yep, they really don't teach abstinence as a form of birth control in sex education. They should push it. Going on about using condoms and birth control is like saying "We don't trust you to respect yourselves enough not to have sex, so we're just gonna tell you how to do it without dying, .. sometimes." I am 20, and still a virgin and VERY proud of it. Anytime I could have lost it before now (and yes, there were times), it would have been sleazy, obviously not with the person I am going to spend the rest of my life with because I am YOUNG - I can't reasonably convince myself I'm going to find someone meaningful now, and I'm not into "casual", personally. Besides the fact, a) my Christian upbringing prompts me to save it for marriage (and really, wouldn't that be an amazing wedding gift? To give your husband something that NO ONE ELSE HAS EVER HAD and never will have? Why would you give it to some random person when you're young and things don't last?), b) I'm not ready to have a baby or an STD, and since abstinence is the only surefire way, I am therefore not ready to have sex, and c) I have far too much respect for myself. I'm pretty much the same way, except Im 17, not 20. For one, I want to save myself for my husband. Plus I'm not ready. I agree with you, though -- it would be an awesome wedding gift to be able to say to my husband that i waited for him
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Post by paintbabylover0518 on Feb 17, 2006 21:41:58 GMT -5
a lot of girls will say that they have sex with their BF because they love each other. If you really want to know if the guy loves you, then dont sleep with him. if he sticks around then he cares about you, not the sex. and if leaves, then you will see really that he was an ass and al he was looking for was some ass. so drop him and all he'll be left with is his right hand! And if a guy ever tells you that if you really loved him then sleep with him, but if he really loved you, then he would take no for an answer and wouldnt pressure you. just something to think about
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Post by Erin on Feb 17, 2006 22:22:53 GMT -5
^ Exactly. I want a guy who will love me for who I am, and who will respect my decision to wait...one who doesnt just want me for sex. Guys like that are few and far between, but there's someone out there for me... hopefully. lol.
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Post by Jay on Feb 18, 2006 11:21:25 GMT -5
Haha I like sex too much to just stop...I dont fuck any guy that sits next to me. Its usually a boyfriend...I lost mine at 15 or 14? I dont know. Yeahhhh...I respect anyone who saves themself though.
Gaby
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Post by paintbabylover0518 on Feb 18, 2006 13:24:08 GMT -5
haha^ thats what i told my mom. shes like i dont want u having sex for a wile.. and im like.. mom, i liek it too much to stop! hahaha so im the same way gaby
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Post by cookie on Feb 18, 2006 16:52:14 GMT -5
I have lost my virginity! i lost it to an x-bf and i regret it so much!! I was 16 and still felt insecure and hadnt even accepted myself properly, let alone having another person respect me! he pushed and pushed about sex and i finally gave in thinking i was ready! i wasnt! and he let me down alot by txting me straight after saying that nxt time we should have sex in the bath!! im sorry but if you cared about someone you wouldnt push them! so we split up as i no longer felt comfortable around him!!
I now have a lovely new bf and he is my world! he is 2yrs older than me but he lost his virginity to me! his family is religious and so i told him i understand if he wants to wait but he said no! so yeah we have sex but always safe!!
Rather be safe than sorry!
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Pretty cool
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Post by kim on Feb 18, 2006 22:13:48 GMT -5
Thats good!
I slept with my b/f today.
Litterally. We were tired so we both took a nap. lol
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Post by Cassandra on Feb 19, 2006 9:44:39 GMT -5
Lol nice Kim! I thought you ment you had sex with him I was gonna be YOU GO GIRL!! haha
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kim
Pretty cool
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Post by kim on Feb 19, 2006 15:01:26 GMT -5
hahah yeah thats what i meant it to sound like
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Post by Cassandra on Feb 19, 2006 15:14:10 GMT -5
Lol i know
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Post by Jay on Feb 19, 2006 15:51:50 GMT -5
lol NO WAY
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