celina
Newbie
While we were waiting, staying, hesitating, it could of been me and you..<3
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Post by celina on Feb 19, 2006 21:56:39 GMT -5
to have sex or to not have sex.. that,(pause) is the question
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Post by Jay on Feb 19, 2006 22:12:37 GMT -5
HAVE SEXXXXX
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Post by arielsback on Feb 20, 2006 13:32:25 GMT -5
That's sick Val. Still a virgin, always will until marriage.
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celina
Newbie
While we were waiting, staying, hesitating, it could of been me and you..<3
Posts: 43
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Post by celina on Feb 20, 2006 21:22:08 GMT -5
did you read the other post about val?^^ it wasnt her fault.. umm im not sure what post its in but meggy posted it. she was raped. ahahha gaby
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Post by Jay on Feb 21, 2006 12:02:01 GMT -5
like that celina?
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Post by arielsback on Feb 21, 2006 12:03:22 GMT -5
Why is everyone loosing it so soon?
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Post by razzyjazzy on Feb 21, 2006 16:37:24 GMT -5
Why does it matter Ariel? it is their decision....they arent asking you why you are saving yourself...it their decision so you dont need to harp on them for it.
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Post by arielsback on Feb 21, 2006 19:22:28 GMT -5
Why does it matter Ariel? it is their decision....they arent asking you why you are saving yourself...it their decision so you dont need to harp on them for it. Jay, why do you need to turn this into a fight. Bug off.
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Post by Jay on Feb 21, 2006 20:09:38 GMT -5
I lost it...because...whatever. Its just sex.
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Post by hidenseeker424 on Feb 21, 2006 23:35:15 GMT -5
I think that we have the two sides of the issue here: some people think that it's just sex and other people think it's a big deal. I personally probably won't wait until marriage, but I'm 17 and haven't even come close. I DO think that it's important to be with someone very important to you, and shouldn't be casual, but I recognize that other people feel differently. Neither group should be ridiculed for their feelings: it's how they feel, and they won't be changed by people preaching to them.
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Post by Jay on Feb 21, 2006 23:45:43 GMT -5
^^ good way to put it. I just see it as not as big of a deal...I dunno. I just dont understand what the fuss is about...
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celina
Newbie
While we were waiting, staying, hesitating, it could of been me and you..<3
Posts: 43
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Post by celina on Feb 22, 2006 20:09:07 GMT -5
^^ and a few posts above^^ .. i think people can have casual sex...like it all dependsa on your point of view, but even if people have casual sex, they can still have sex with someone they really love and it can mean something but, i gues it just depends on everyones veiws on sex. and i dont knowmy point of view, i havent had sex yet, im 14.. jeff and i have talked about it...but i ono when it going to happen, my mom will understand though, thats just the way she is, and she said llol haha def.
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Post by skyland on Feb 22, 2006 22:11:20 GMT -5
I think I was posting in the wrong one...this is where the action is.... ha, ha! My prob...have hot guy...am a virgin...and have been in a family where God is it and we pray if the meatloaf burns... you think I'm kidding. I know nothing about sex....well, i know that the stock doesn't bring babies...ha,ha. i mean, i want to... but like does it hurt the first time...is it really as good as people say... i mean i know it is good for him...he is one large hormone with a siz pack. how am I not screwing this guy? is it really that good.... god, i feel like a total loser for asking.....is there a loser icon?
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Post by Jay on Feb 23, 2006 12:19:14 GMT -5
haha dont worry about it. Yeah, it does usually hurt a bit the first time...after that though, I think its fun and "pleasurable" hahaa...
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Post by Jessi! on Feb 23, 2006 15:41:04 GMT -5
Yep, they really don't teach abstinence as a form of birth control in sex education. They should push it. Going on about using condoms and birth control is like saying "We don't trust you to respect yourselves enough not to have sex, so we're just gonna tell you how to do it without dying, .. sometimes." I am 20, and still a virgin and VERY proud of it. Anytime I could have lost it before now (and yes, there were times), it would have been sleazy, obviously not with the person I am going to spend the rest of my life with because I am YOUNG - I can't reasonably convince myself I'm going to find someone meaningful now, and I'm not into "casual", personally. Besides the fact, a) my Christian upbringing prompts me to save it for marriage (and really, wouldn't that be an amazing wedding gift? To give your husband something that NO ONE ELSE HAS EVER HAD and never will have? Why would you give it to some random person when you're young and things don't last?), b) I'm not ready to have a baby or an STD, and since abstinence is the only surefire way, I am therefore not ready to have sex, and c) I have far too much respect for myself. I agree with this 100%.. except I'm 15. I'm the same exact way.. I'm very religious, have a lot of respect for myself, and as a 10th grader I am not ready for a baby. However, I'm also not going to call someone a slut because they lost it before marriage.. That type of thing isn't my style, but I won't be rude to someone because they're into sex. I am definitely prude.. I've never even kissed a guy (though i have had maybe 4 boyfriends). I just feel that it's better to be safe then to be sorry..
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